So, yesterday was kind of a good day. Learning a new life lesson in an easy way. So, this was what happened: waffling through the decision of whether to leave a lecture or not, to go meet my mentor right now or later, I was in a dilemma.
For one side had its effect on my college attendance and the other, well not-so-bad of a choice.
So, what should I have done?
Well, I sat through the lecture for an hour, mostly reading an article (the story mesh), reading her story, and soon found myself in a position the same as her.
Now, I have had a bad habit of comparing or, one can say, making others life mine. Reflecting on my decisions and then looking at theirs.
So, fast forward, while reading I realised that, I make other people’s lives and its hurdles mine; which is, get attached emotionally.
And put my focus and energy into their life.
And this is what makes it hard to build my own life. Because I am always judging and comparing my life with others.
So, here’s what you do to remove this difficulty?
Firstly, this means that you need to know that you know enough of what you want to achieve and that you are procrastinating by making an excuse to know more or whatever it is. And this was mine, the excuse.
Then, you need to understand that, your life is completely different and you need to pave your own path and no one else will help you with that, because everyone else has got their own life to build.
I mean ask yourself this question, “What life do I want to build?”, “Do I really want to focus on others?”
And become conscious of every decision, thought and action you take.
And this is how I helped myself get out of a situation.
Thank you and I hope this article helps you in some way.
Life Design 