So, here it is. There are countless habits of mine that make me feel miserable. But that one habit. Ooh, that one habit which takes me completely down.
From that one habit roots many habits that do the same. So, what is this habit anyways?
It is the habit of comparing. Comparing myself with my friends, in every way possible. Like, “Who is good at talking?”, “What if I have this car?” And so on.
The next in the line comes, judging.
Now, we all have heard that one should never judge a book by its cover. But what if that book turns out to be you and you know what lies inside.
Due to my so-called habit, it seems that I have made myself a villain in my own story. Not connecting with people because I am toxic in some way. Or not commuting to a person because I am not yet good for her.
Hmm. So, much goes on here.
Many articles focus on one thing, though, when we compare: to focus on our strengths. But is it that easy?
Is it that easy to focus on our strengths. I guess it is. But, most of the time, we are habituated to focus and compare our losing parts and not our strengths.
And it is true that it won’t just become a success in the first try. It will take time.
And this is also true, no matter where you are, or what you do, if your mindset is not brave, courageous, genuine and humble, there will always be pain.
Thank you and I hope this article was helpful in some way.
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