The evolution during raising children:

Evolution Part One – Saying NO to Your Kids.

A way to a better livelihood.

Many understand and grow and evolve, but many still face challenges raising theirr children. They don’t respect their parents despite giving their kids everything they ask for, they talk arrogantly and so on.

Being an older brother, I have come to learn this the hard way. And life would have been different if my parents would have understood, grown and evolved.

Now this isn’t a secret, but an everyday habit that can be used to shape your children. There are no right or wrong ways to do something. So, this is something that I’ve learnt.

Parents, usually, I have known no reason for it, but knowing my parents, say yes to everything that their children want to do. Whether it be quitting something, or changing to a different lane.
This taught me two things: whenever I am facing challenges, I can quit because my parents have got me covered there. And other, whatever I ask my parents, I can have it with a little effort.

So, how is this bad anyway? Is it bad in any way?

Firstly, I have not faced challenges bravely and now it’s difficult for me. Secondly, I was always assured that my parents money can solve my problems and that they have it in abundance. Thirdly, I was less grateful for the life they gave me.

So, yes, if, even once, they had said no and told me to continue my ‘stuff’, I would have learned to face my challenges, and learned to be grateful for my life.

Now, it’s alright, because I am still learning this – to be grateful and that facing my challenges are the real fun.

So, you parents should learn to say “no” to your kids more often. But here’s the twist, when to say and when to say yes?

Never put money first and then say no because of less money. Or never say yes to everything because there is an abundance of money.

Listen to them, let them put out their request. Then understand and if it gives you the right gutsy feeling, then do it. Or don’t do it.

And never feel bad about saying no. Live your life the way you want.

It’s such a beautiful thing what one word can do, no. Not only will they learn the price for what they ask, they will learn patience, gratitude, respecting others and themselves, and who knows if they build their own way.

Thank you and hope you enjoyed reading this article. Take away what you want to and give me a chance to learn by giving me your knowledge.

Bye!