There have been numerous times where I’ve made mistakes that put me back at the beginning. And this have been the same mistakes and the same places that find myself.
Fom this, there’s one sure thing I learned, that so many have been talking about. Until I learn what I am doing something which is not appropriate and needs changing, but I myself from changing, then it will stick with me.
But putting this aside, I am going to speak about what to do after you mess up? Or what I ahve learned to do after I mess up?
After learning that I must change my habits, my mindset and my attitude towards everything to lead a better life, I began to adopt a new belief system, habits and so on.
But repeatedly, I made the same mistakes.
And I found myself at the same place where I first began working on me.
Due to falling and getting up, I learned a very important thing.
Whenever I got up, aiming to become better, I selected goals, lessons, and mistakes from my past. This only hurt me mentally. The reason I am not aware of yet.
But after numerous times of failing and getting up, it taught me to choose a new perspective on life. New rules, new motto, and new goals. The emotional intensity was also new.
But I still had to make changes from my past mistake.
And this, I guess is what it means moving past you past and forgiving yourself.
To conclude this article with a helpful note:
Change your ways, perspective and find good in what has happened. It is hard. But finding how you can do it is about it.
Hope this article helps you make a better decision.
Life Design 